“We are all looking for something”

“Our goals and aspirations typically hint at what we each are really looking for in our lives. Who we want to feel we are. ” - Tadayoshi Inoue

I have always want to just feel my joyful and loving nature. I have gotten to experience a lot of this in my life. I am so grateful for the abundance of love and joy that I have experienced in my life’s journey. But when I think about what I have been looking for truly looking for in my life it is to be eternally free. 

Free to express my love, my friendship, my joy and my sorry at times. For me this kind of liberty is essential to me wanting to even participate in this life on any level. So if you want to get under my skin then tell me “I have to do something…” I do not! I get to decided what the heck I think about and do and nobody can force me to do otherwise.

To me this is why I am here in this life. To express my love and joy freely and openly. I know it sounds a little like a hippie and yes sometimes I feel a little tuned out of the common discourse of this life. I find much of it boring and not very important to what is most essential. 

Which reminds me of one of my favorite quotes! “What”s essential is invisible to the eye…” – Antoine de Saint-Exupery “The Little Prince” I feel the truth of this in my life. What is most essential to me you can’t see you will only feel. My love. My friendship. And my support and attention. 

What is most important to you in your life? Can you see how your goals and your life direction, what you feel is important has lead you in that direction? I can easily see this in my own life. Bodybuilding and fitness led me to love my body and the work that I do. But my relationships have led me to see that the only relationship I need to make sure that is filled with love is the one I have with myself. 

But that also includes those that I love. I see them as the extension of me. My daughter, my brother and my family. They are me and I am them when I love them then I am really loving me. Secret hack: I also really try to see everyone I share my energy with as my family, my human family. So when I love you I also love myself. Its just harder to see sometimes. 

Picture: While in Hawaii, we went to a Luau and I saw this beautiful lady who did a hula dance for us. OMG She was so beautiful, my idea of feminine beauty wow!

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About the author
Tad Inoue is an IFBB Professional League judge, Nutritionist and Professional Diet Coach for many clients and athletes worldwide. Tad has been in the bodybuilding and fitness industry for over 32 years and his clients include professional athletes, top amateur atheletes and all other competitors in figure, bikini, men and women's physique and bodybuilding, as well as individuals interested in optimal health. Tad was a National competitor in the NPC for over 30 years and now focuses his passion, knowledge and experience on helping and instructing others in fitness, wellness and athletic competition. His education includes philosophy, theology, nutrition, biochemistry as well as dietetics. He specializes in contest preparation for Figure, Bikini, men and women's Phyisque, Bodybuilding and fat loss for optimal health. Tad is also a speaker on mindfulness, motivation and joyful positive living.