Love and beauty

“Well-formed molecules are only a small facet of beauty, and they don’t last a life time. Our real beauty comes from a source within us that we must choose to show the world. ” -Tadayoshi Inoue

In my life, I have been so blessed to have dated and married such wonderfully physically beautiful ladies. But their physical beauty was never enough to maintain interest and love alone. My love is choice that I offer. It isn’t based on well formed molecules or what I receive in return. It base it on a choice, in which I have decided to exits with a person. 

Love ends up being for me a state of being that I lean into or not. I usually choose to lean into it with anyone and everyone. Why? Because loving others feels better than feeling anything else for others. Loving others makes me feel powerful and whole, and best of all I get to feel these wonderful feelings of love so profoundly everyday all the time. All because I choose to.  

I could choose to have reasons to love. But that wouldn’t serve my daughter very well if I did it that way. It wouldn’t serve my lovers in my life very well if I loved this way. And mostly, it wouldn’t serve me very well if I needed others to perform for me in order for me to love them. So I really do practice loving without reason or cause. 

This may seem difficult for many, but for me it is the easiest way to always get what I want. And I always get what I want! I don’t care how others do things. I care about my experience. Its the only one I really have and the only one I am in charge of managing. So I cultivate those wonderful feelings that I want to feel each day intentionally. I highly recommend this for everyone. 

I am love. I am joy. I am so very good. 


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About the author
Tad Inoue is an IFBB Professional League judge, Nutritionist and Professional Diet Coach for many clients and athletes worldwide. Tad has been in the bodybuilding and fitness industry for over 32 years and his clients include professional athletes, top amateur atheletes and all other competitors in figure, bikini, men and women's physique and bodybuilding, as well as individuals interested in optimal health. Tad was a National competitor in the NPC for over 30 years and now focuses his passion, knowledge and experience on helping and instructing others in fitness, wellness and athletic competition. His education includes philosophy, theology, nutrition, biochemistry as well as dietetics. He specializes in contest preparation for Figure, Bikini, men and women's Phyisque, Bodybuilding and fat loss for optimal health. Tad is also a speaker on mindfulness, motivation and joyful positive living.