Born to love

“You're the only one I can talk to The only one I can really read I know you give because you want to Don't you think it's time you learn to let yourself receive?” - Ray LaMontagne “I was Born to love you”

Its funny, I know I am an emotionally charged man. I know that I love super deeply and all of my feelings mean something great to me , even the bad ones. I also know that most of the ladies I have ever loved couldn’t receive all of what I was offering. It took me 51 years and a shaman in order for me to be able find someone who was willing to receive all of what I want to offer in love.  

The journey has been wonderful and heart-breaking at the same time. But man…. while I love being in love, and I love my single life… I also love my Carolina also. Thank you sweetheart for being so understanding, loving, nurturing and honoring. You take all of my feelings seriously and you honor me with tenderness and love. I am so grateful! 

How did I find this unique and powerfully nurturing woman? I took time off from dating for a few years so I could ask myself question: “Who are you Tad? And what do you really want?” I am so glad I took the time. My life has been a wonderful roller coaster ride of highs and lows. But I wouldn’t give up an single day for another. Because each day has lead to the next and where I am today seems light years away from just who I was a few years ago. 

Did I answer my questions? Yes I have, but I have also learned to keep asking these questions my whole life. Who am I? What do I want for myself and my life? 

I am love. I am joy. I am always and forever good. 

If you are struggling to understand. If you are waiting for something to happen in your life in order to live the life you want. Or if you just feel like you are in a hole and can’t see the light, I am always willing to share my journey with you and to reflect back to you what I see in you. I have no answers for you. I only have questions. But sometimes its the questions that leads us right to where we need to be. I definitely was born to love each and every one of you. 

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(Picture: Me and my Carolina at the 2022 State of Trance in LA)


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About the author
Tad Inoue is an IFBB Professional League judge, Nutritionist and Professional Diet Coach for many clients and athletes worldwide. Tad has been in the bodybuilding and fitness industry for over 32 years and his clients include professional athletes, top amateur atheletes and all other competitors in figure, bikini, men and women's physique and bodybuilding, as well as individuals interested in optimal health. Tad was a National competitor in the NPC for over 30 years and now focuses his passion, knowledge and experience on helping and instructing others in fitness, wellness and athletic competition. His education includes philosophy, theology, nutrition, biochemistry as well as dietetics. He specializes in contest preparation for Figure, Bikini, men and women's Phyisque, Bodybuilding and fat loss for optimal health. Tad is also a speaker on mindfulness, motivation and joyful positive living.